What characterizes insecure and avoidant attached children?

Insecure and avoidant attachment in children is characterized by a noticeable lack of interest in reunions with their primary caregivers after a separation. These children often exhibit behavior that suggests they have learned to be self-reliant and may avoid seeking comfort from their caregivers. When reunited with their mothers, they typically do not approach or show affection, indicating a disinterest in re-establishing a connection.

This behavior stems from experiences where their caregivers may have been inconsistent or unavailable, leading the child to develop an avoidant strategy to cope with distress. Rather than seeking closeness, these children often appear indifferent or emotionally distant. This detachment contrasts sharply with secure attachment behaviors, where children actively seek comfort from their caregivers and exhibit joy upon reunification. Understanding this pattern is essential for recognizing how early attachment experiences can shape behavior and emotional responses in children.